How to get your ex back – 4 things not to do

Immediately after breaking up is a serious period for the future potential of any relationship. Your deeds in the days and weeks to follow are going to have a huge effect on whether you get back together or not. Don’t allow your chances to fall because you make mistakes. Here’s 3 actions you definitely mustn’t do.

1. Don’t phone your ex. Doing this is not crazy as if you telephone them you will push them away. Continual bombardment with telephone calls is a big no-no in the making-up game. A lot of phone calls every few minutes of the day will only drive them further away. You don’t want them to feel this way at all. Your ex need to get time on their own to think about your past. They will be remembering all the days good and bad now, but a load of calls will mean they remember the bad times more vividly and they will reason that it is a good choice to break up. This is not how to get your ex back.

2. Don’t be needy. There is nothing sadder than hanging off an ex and telling them how much you need them. It would be difficult to make it worse. If you start to come off as a kind of childish person who cannot stay on their own two feet with a little dignity it will only mean you look bad. You have to appear happy with the choice and even aloof. You want a good start and here it is. Your ex has to have time and space to examine their own feelings so they will not have room to assist with yours as well.

3. Don’t plead with them to return. This would be a nightmare just following a break-up. You need to remember not to go down this road, however real you feel, because there’s just negative energy about it. If you behave like this it looks like you have lost control and then may be an ongoing issue in the future and this is not much to look forward to.

So do not phone your ex and attempty to turn off the taps on your emotions just after a break-up. Right now you have to be strongest to prepare to win your ex back. Be more positive during this time and you can work towards salvaging your relationship. This is how to win back your ex.

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